Getting Implant 7/28/26 - Question

[allin320]

So I’ve decided to get an implant 7/28/26. I’m 48 yrs old and have had Ed for about 8 years. Obviously a bit bit nervous but ready to put the time in to heal and cycle the implant.

I’m single and recently met someone. I am debating if I should break it off with her until after I’m healed up, like 2-3 months. Not sure I want to tell her about my situation as I’ve only gone on 3-4 dates with her. I know in the end it’s my decision to break it off or tell her but interested if anyone has had this experience or any advice is appreciated.

[HikerMan]

For me, if it's a meaningless fling I wouldn't say anything.
Because as many of us implanted guys have figured out you can easily "chub up" by doing a quick bathroom run or
going down on her you can manipulate yourself and Mr. Happy will be at a full salute when you get back up.

Some us ambidextrous guys can actually pull this off with one hand, it's actually not that hard. (No pun intended)

But, I think if you're serious and you want to get something started I would speak up and tell sooner than later.
I think in the long run, if she digs you it really won't matter.

Just my 2 cents.

Good luck on your surgery

[Handyman]

You could tell her you are having hernia surgery or some other surgery on your midsection. The challenge will be that it will take a few months to heal and for a solid month you will be sensitive to movement . You have to decide how you want to deal with that. You could just tell her the surgery story and build the relationship without her pleasuring you for a while. Good luck with surgery and enjoy being part of the bionic club. It is life changing!

[allin320]

Thanks guys. I told her I have a medical issue I have to deal with. And that I have to focus on myself for a while.

Appreciate the input and the support on this forum guys

[8smoth]

I told aquaintances that I was getting hernia surgery. I have been married 40 years and I obviously don't date but I don't really know why you would want to hide it if you do get into a relationship. I am 67 now and I just feel that being honest and open is usually the best move. I am too old and tired for subterfuge. And when the partner sees how good it works I would imagine that there will be no complaining - if there is -move on.