What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

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Desperado
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What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby Desperado » Thu Sep 25, 2025 1:22 am

Hi.

I’m asking because my decision about an IPP is for me.

It’s been 22 years for me. It just happened.

I miss my erection.
56. Prostrate cancer (gone), 2022 Brachytherapy, ED hourglass PD, pills/shots failed. Prepping for IPP 2027, Restorex, VED, Shockwave, Supplements.

fucked0ne
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby fucked0ne » Fri Sep 26, 2025 12:41 am

Desperado wrote:Hi.

I’m asking because my decision about an IPP is for me.

It’s been 22 years for me. It just happened.

I miss my erection.


Going on 8; last time I had sex was 34. Dick stopped working at 36; had horrible ED for 4 years, so couldn’t have sex; was implanted at 40; have not used my LGX for sex as I don’t like the infirmness of the device, and am now considering a swap to a CX or a Tactra. (I also lost girth as the thing expanded in length.) I turn 42 this year.

Oddly enough, your body adapts to the lack of sex the same way your stomach adapts to a lack of food. At least that’s what I’ve noticed.
42. Implanted by Dr. Kramer, July 5, 2024, AMS LGX, 21cm cylinders + 2cm RTEs. Idiopathic "hard flaccid" ED following bacterial infection. Tried pulse waves, Cialis, TRT, even spinal injections. Nada.

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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby ready2go » Fri Sep 26, 2025 1:17 am

a few months
American , retired in the philippines .
tactra malleable 13 mm ,in new delhi India . on april 2024

Desperado
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby Desperado » Fri Sep 26, 2025 1:21 am

fucked0ne,

Thanks for sharing. Sounds awful. Have you tried a VED? I have no experience or expertise here.
56. Prostrate cancer (gone), 2022 Brachytherapy, ED hourglass PD, pills/shots failed. Prepping for IPP 2027, Restorex, VED, Shockwave, Supplements.

Desperado
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby Desperado » Fri Sep 26, 2025 1:23 am

ready2go,

For yourself sir, 2 months must feel like 20 years. ;)

Cheers
56. Prostrate cancer (gone), 2022 Brachytherapy, ED hourglass PD, pills/shots failed. Prepping for IPP 2027, Restorex, VED, Shockwave, Supplements.

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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby ready2go » Fri Sep 26, 2025 6:25 am

Desperado wrote:ready2go,

For yourself sir, 2 months must feel like 20 years. ;)

Cheers


well , i didn't really have ED per se until my early 60s that i treated with supplements and cialis ,and i ,of course with age i slowed down like in my 50s ,more so .
i married at early 30s, so sex was available when i wanted it .,and before that i would find girls to fool around with or live with .
now the wife is older and needs medical help . But she also left from where we retired 3 times to go visit family etc . Up to a year once, and i found girls who wanted company then as well .
i don't mind alone time , but i do like having female company and with the included intimacy . it's definitely more interesting , other than the sex .
yeah but now 2 months would be too long .
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CanGetItUpButNotOff
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby CanGetItUpButNotOff » Fri Sep 26, 2025 6:43 am

17 years.

But since I was 17 years old, just one three week period I can recall. Do blowjobs count?

Long ago, we were separated for two months but I still snuck in one blowjob so there might have been 4-5 weeks without.
Born 1954. Diabetes, hypertension, atherosclerosis. Sildenafil iffy. Tri-Mix 30/3/20 Pap/Phen/PGE1 godsend pending long-term efficacy. Daily Cialis. Tried LiESWT 4 times, Botox, PT141, Eroxon, QST, DUS, Vertica, Ferticare, cabergoline, psycho+hypnotherapy

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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby fucked0ne » Fri Sep 26, 2025 7:49 pm

Desperado wrote:fucked0ne,

Thanks for sharing. Sounds awful. Have you tried a VED? I have no experience or expertise here.


Not with the implant. Not sure how that would help with the instability.
42. Implanted by Dr. Kramer, July 5, 2024, AMS LGX, 21cm cylinders + 2cm RTEs. Idiopathic "hard flaccid" ED following bacterial infection. Tried pulse waves, Cialis, TRT, even spinal injections. Nada.

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Wooody
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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby Wooody » Fri Sep 26, 2025 8:01 pm

Since I lost my virginity, maybe ~6months. I'm a nympho.. can't live without sex.. it's like oxygen for me, for real! :lol:
Titan Classic 22cm + 1cm RTEs - 2/25 - Dr Karpman, Bay Area CA

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Re: What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?

Postby LGXDownunder » Fri Sep 26, 2025 9:22 pm

Similar to Wooody since no longer a virgin I've only abstained for medical reasons, maybe 6-8 weeks max. after surgery.
I too need regular sex. Probably also helps diffuse my OCD tendencies and relax me.
And I'm pretty much always horny now with my implant :D.
71, married, Sydney Oz. PC/nerve sparing RRP Mar 22 then profound ED. Tried pills, Trimix inj, focal shockwave, VED.
Implanted Mar 6 2025 AMS 700 LGX 21cm x 12mm, no RTEs, MS pump, Penoscrotal. Back to 6.5" BPEL @ 9m.
Recovery great but have a bend.


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