Surrogate for wife of prostatectomy survivor

[Claywcl]

I had a prostatectomy in October 2025! !

[ready2go]

my wife needs to get a surrogate for me . i want it but she is done .

[RJ_in_Pa]

I too had the life changing prostatectomy (aka RP). Have you tried VED (vacuum erection device) or pills (cialis or viagra) or injections (TriMix). These options can get you back to having sex with your bride. If they don't satisfy her, you can get an implant. Many on this site have had great success with implants and you read about their journeys.

Good luck!
RJ

[Kimball]

As long as blood can still enter your penis, you may be able to restore it's size, as well as have sex again, by using a medical VED and tension ring.

[ElbowRoom]

Use a VED to stop the atrophy, and go consult with a high volume implant surgeon. You don’t have to accept living like this.

[GoodWood]

If you want to be erect so you can make love to your wife there is a solution.

Get a urologist that can help you cycle through oral ED meds (Viagra, Levitra, Cialis)
If that doesn’t work then shots are next. (Monomix, BiMix, TriMix)
If that doesn’t work, get an implant. That WILL work no matter what.

Or if you want to be cuckold,(your wife and you are turned on by her being “serviced” by other men while you are left impotent to watch) that is fine. But that’s not what this site is for. You’ll find other sites that are better for that. Swingers sites would be a good start for that. I’m sure there are more specific kink/cuckold/hotwife sites for that.


But if you want to be erect again the guys here have lots of experience with that.

[RJ_in_Pa]

Well said GoodWood!

I’m surprised he has not responded in some way. You may be right. He may have been phishing for things from this site other than advice on dealing with ED.

[Claywcl]

Thanks for your advice!